Get On Your Feminine Journey

Being a woman is a beautiful thing. There is no need to compete with men or with other women. Femininity is not your outer beauty. Your positive energy, loving and nurturing spirit, confidence, and lady-like mindset sets the tone for how powerful your femininity can be. Women are all feminine at the core, however, life situations can get us far from basking in the beauty of being a woman. Book me as your femininity and relationship coach. 

As a woman, you have the power to accept what man comes in your life, the ability to choose whose marriage proposal you accept, the person in which you have children, and who and when you have consensual sex. I urge you to not waste precious time enjoying "hot girl summer" or settling with just any man. Start early to make wise decisions while you are young. Even if you are older, it is not too late to make improvements in your approach. Book me to learn successful ways to vet while dating.

If you are a man, you decide who you want to date, build a relationship with and to whom you wish to propose. As a man you are the gatekeeper to marriage and considered the leader in the relationship. It is imperative that you stand firm on your standards because this woman may potentially carry your name (which is your brand and reputation), your child, have access to your money, your home, and will have access to your vulnerable side. Standards should always take precedence over preferences. Standards should be foundational. Everything else can build on top of that. Also, consider your life and if it matches your request of your potential lady. Lastly, great men always leads in love. You don't have to beat your chest to command respect. If you feel like you have to in order to get her respect, she's not the one. Book a session to get guidance on vetting skills today. Also consider buying my book, "Command Respect From The Woman You Want."

Dating does have a deadline. There should always be an end goal and checkpoints to see if you are headed in the right direction. It is important to state your intentions in the beginning so you can better understand the end goal. Book a session if you find yourself constantly wasting unnecessary time in a relationship.

Marriage can be a bliss with effort and the right mindset. Many times we hear either the beauty of marriage or the tragedy of a failed marriage. However, its usually never one person that can make a marriage a success or failure. Marriage is a two-way street and it is definitely a magnifier on the strengths and weaknesses of both parties. I would love to provide tips on being in a healthy marriage and ways to improve a shaky one.  Not married yet? I can offer you tips on becoming a successful spouse with a partner you deserve and the expectations required for a healthy marriage. Book a session with me for those tips.

How is it possible to truly love someone else and not fully love yourself? You can try, but you will continually trip over your insecurities, hurt, and pain. You will set the tone of "If you don't love you, why should I? If you don't care, why should I?  Inner beauty is very much important as outer beauty, because the other person's perception is their reality. When people see that you've put effort in how you look, how you dress, the way you behave (emotional maturity and mindset), they will see the value YOU have placed  on your worth, not the value they've placed.  Renewing your mind, body, and spirit is the start of gaining self-love and having daily or weekly self-care. Self-love and self-respect is not just for women. Men must have self-respect if they seek to have a woman to respect them. Men must know their worth and love themselves so they can be healed enough to find and attract that same level of healthiness in a lady.

It's time we own our uniqueness. We must embrace who we are and make improvements as necessary to be the best version of ourselves. Once you truly know who you are, you will be able to walk in confidence and boldness. One of the sexiest thing about a person is their confidence. Confidence is so often confused with arrogance and aggressiveness. Arrogance is rooted in insecurities and aggressiveness is rooted in fear, fear of not getting respect, so one demands it. Assertiveness should replace aggressiveness. Assertiveness complements confidence, because it tells others that you are assured and decisive in all that you do.